Pastor Theo Schaffer stands with you at the altar — and walks with you long before and after it.
Too many ceremonies feel borrowed — the same words, read off the same page, for a couple the officiant met twice. That's not what I do.
I sit with you. I learn your story, your faith, the way you actually talk to each other. Then I build a ceremony that carries your names in it — warm, personal, rooted in God, and genuinely fun to be standing in. Your people should feel like they know you better when they leave than when they sat down.
And here's the part most officiants skip: the wedding is one day. The marriage is the rest of your life. So I don't disappear after the kiss. I help you build something that lasts — from the honeymoon glow all the way to forever.
A relaxed intro call. Your story, your vision, your questions. No pressure, no script.
A ceremony written around you — your faith, your vows, the moments that matter.
Calm, present, and prepared. Rehearsal handled, nerves settled, every detail held.
Premarital coaching and the Ten Phases program — so the marriage outlasts the wedding.
No hidden fees. Just clear options for your ceremony — and a way to keep building long after it.
A fully personalized ceremony, written with you and delivered with warmth and presence on your wedding day.
Local Charlotte area. Travel beyond, plus board & lodging for destination weddings, quoted to fit your plans.
Reserve Your Date →Everything in the ceremony package, plus Pastor Theo leading your rehearsal — so the whole party walks in confident and calm.
The most-requested option for couples with a wedding party.
Reserve Your Date →Strong marriages aren't an accident — they're built. Choose a package (minimum 3 sessions), and continue right into our Ten Phases marriage program before or after the wedding.
Single sessions available at $35. Ask about continuing into Ten Phases — many couples keep going long after "I do."
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