Marriage · Family · First Responder · Leadership · Faith

We Build
People, Systems,
and Legacy.

For 20 years, Theo & Patrice Schaffer have walked alongside individuals, couples, families, and leaders at the moments that matter most. Whether you're preparing for marriage, rebuilding your family, carrying the weight of the badge, or leading an organization forward — there is a place for you here. Four programs. One family. One calling. Built to meet you where you are and take you where you're meant to go.

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Ten Phases™

Covenant Counsel™

Soul Shield™

Leadership & Systems™

Marriage Coaching

Family Counseling

First Responder Support

Organizational Consulting

Premarital Coaching

Teen & Young Adult Sessions

Critical Incident Support

AI-Era Leadership

Ten Phases™

Covenant Counsel™

Soul Shield™

Leadership & Systems™

Marriage Coaching

Family Counseling

First Responder Support

Organizational Consulting

Premarital Coaching

Teen & Young Adult Sessions

Critical Incident Support

AI-Era Leadership

Every person, every marriage, every family, every organization carries unrealized potential. Our work is to come alongside them — with pastoral wisdom, proven systems, and relentless belief — and help them build what they were created for.

Theo & Patrice Schaffer · Pastors · Counselors · Builders

Ten Phases™ · Marriage

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We Help Couples Build
Marriages That Last.

Ten Phases™ is our comprehensive marriage ecosystem — covering every stage of a couple's journey, from intentional preparation before the wedding to restoration, growth, and lasting legacy.

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Premarital Coaching

Intentional preparation before you say I do · $45–$70/session

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Marriage Coaching

Tools to strengthen connection, communication, and commitment

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Marriage Intensives

One and two-day breakthrough sessions · $1,297

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Wedding Officiant Services

Ceremonies with meaning, warmth, and intentionality · $300–$400

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Marriage Ecosystem

From preparation to legacy — every phase covered

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Young adults may book sessions directly

Covenant Counsel™ · Family Coaching

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Healthy Families Are
Built on Purpose.

Faith-informed counseling and coaching for families, parents, and young people navigating real life together. Every generation deserves a safe, purposeful space to grow.

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Parent & Child Coaching

Practical support for parents and children learning to communicate, connect, and grow.

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Teen & Student Counseling

A safe, supportive space for teenagers navigating identity, relationships, and transitions.

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Young Adult Sessions

College students and young adults may book directly — confidential, practical, judgment-free.

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Family Legacy Sessions

Guided conversations to help families define shared values, vision, and direction.

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✝️ Pastor Theo Schaffer

Counselor · Pastor · 20+ Years Experience

1:1 with Pastor Theo

15 Minutes.
Real Talk. Real Direction.

"Sometimes you just need someone who has walked through it, has the pastoral wisdom, and will give it to you straight — with grace and without wasting your time. That's what these calls are."

— Pastor Theo Schaffer

Book a direct call with Pastor Theo. No intake forms. No waiting list. Whether you're figuring out next steps, need a sounding board, or want to know if Schaffer Consulting is the right fit — this call is for you.

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Free · 15 minutes · No commitment · Available weekly

Schaffer Leadership & Systems™

We Help Leaders & Orgs
Build What Lasts.

Pastors, executives, nonprofit directors, and faith-based organizations — strengthening leadership, clarifying vision, and building systems designed to scale. Including navigating leadership in the AI era.

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Pastor & Ministry Coaching

One-on-one coaching for pastors navigating growth, burnout, team dynamics, and organizational direction.

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Church Strategy Consulting

Vision clarity, culture alignment, and systems development for growing faith organizations.

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Executive Leadership Coaching

For leaders in corporate, nonprofit, and public sector environments ready to go to the next level.

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AI-Era Leadership

Helping leaders communicate, grow, and lead effectively in the age of AI — without losing mission or identity.

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Organizational Systems Design

We build the operational infrastructure behind high-functioning teams and scaling organizations. From chaos to clarity.

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AI-Era Ready

Leading organizations in the age of AI

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Strictly Confidential

Your identity and sessions are always protected

Soul Shield™ · First Responder Support

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For Those Who Run
Toward the Fire.

Law enforcement. Firefighters. Military. EMS. Corrections officers. You carry more than most people will ever know. Soul Shield™ is a strength-based, faith-informed support program built specifically for you — confidential, direct, and without judgment.

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Critical Incident Support

Immediate pastoral and emotional support following traumatic incidents on duty.

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Family & Marriage Support

The stress of the job affects the home. Specialized support for first responder families.

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Chaplaincy & Pastoral Care

Faith-grounded support — available whether you are religious or not. Just real pastoral presence.

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Peer Support & Wellness

Strength-based sessions that honor your service without requiring you to ask for help the "wrong" way.

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Speaking & Ministry

Two voices. One mission.

Invite Theo and Patrice Schaffer to your church, conference, or organization — leadership, revival, and the presence of God.

Pastor Theo Schaffer

Leadership & Resilience

Leadership in the AI era, first-responder wellness, marriage, faith & systems — a pastor's heart with an operator's precision.

Patrice Schaffer

Revivalist & Prophetic Voice

Apostolic-prophetic revival and strategic growth for ministry, marketplace, and people. Founder of the Fearless Women's Movement.

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The Schaffer Store

Books. Courses.
Tools That Transform.

Resources from Theo & Patrice — built from real experience, grounded in faith, and designed to equip you for every season of life.

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Patrice Schaffer · Online Course

ROAR Mentorship

Patrice's signature mentorship program for women stepping into purpose — live coaching, community, and accountability.

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Theo Schaffer · Book

JUMP!

A practical, faith-driven guide for anyone standing at the edge of their next chapter — and needing the courage to leap.

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Theo Schaffer · Book

Bro, Don't Let Go

A raw, real call to brotherhood — written for men who need someone to remind them they weren't meant to carry it alone.

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Patrice Schaffer · Book

Expand Your Net

Patrice's guide to building meaningful relationships and expanding your influence — with wisdom, intention, and grace.

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What People Say

The Work Speaks.

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"Theo & Patrice didn't just prepare us for a wedding. They prepared us for a marriage. Two years in and we still use the framework they gave us."

Marcus & Kezia

Ten Phases™ · Premarital Coaching

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"I'd been carrying weight for years I didn't have words for. One session with Pastor Theo and I finally had language — and a path forward."

David R.

Covenant Counsel™ · Individual Sessions

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"Our daughter was pulling away from everything. Two family sessions with the Schaffers and we finally understood what she needed. It changed our home."

Tony & Lydia

Covenant Counsel™ · Family Sessions

About Schaffer Consulting

We're Not Theorists.
We're Practitioners.

Pastor Theo Schaffer has been counseling individuals, couples, and families for over 20 years. Together with Pastor Patrice — his wife of 16 years — they've officiated weddings, walked with families through crises, and built a body of work grounded in scripture, real relationship, and proven systems.

What began as pastoral care inside the church has grown into Schaffer Consulting — a multi-program platform serving people at every life stage, from teenagers navigating identity to executives navigating burnout. One calling. Four movements.

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20+ Years CounselingIndividuals, couples, families & organizations

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500+ Couples ServedPremarital, officiating & marriage coaching

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Speaker & FacilitatorChurches, conferences & organizations

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Chaplaincy BackgroundFirst responder & institutional support

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Faith · Family · Transformation

Pastors · Counselors · Builders

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One Conversation.
Every Season.

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Prayer

How Can We
Pray for You?

We believe prayer changes things. Share what's on your heart — Theo & Patrice personally read every request and lift them to the Lord.

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We'd Love to
Hear From You.

Whether you have a question, want to explore partnership, or just need to know if we're the right fit — reach out. Every conversation is welcome.

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Ten Phases™

@10PhasesToForever · @covenant_counsel · @theoschaffer

We Build People, Systems, and Legacy.

We Help Couples Build Marriages That Last.

Healthy Families Are Built on Purpose.

15 Minutes. Real Talk. Real Direction.

We Help Leaders & Orgs Build What Lasts.

For Those Who Run Toward the Fire.

Two voices. One mission.

Books. Courses. Tools That Transform.

The Work Speaks.

We're Not Theorists. We're Practitioners.

One Conversation. Every Season.

How Can We Pray for You?

We'd Love toHear From You.

Stay Connected. Join the Movement.

We Build
People, Systems,
and Legacy.

We Help Couples Build
Marriages That Last.

Healthy Families Are
Built on Purpose.

15 Minutes.
Real Talk. Real Direction.

We Help Leaders & Orgs
Build What Lasts.

For Those Who Run
Toward the Fire.

Books. Courses.
Tools That Transform.

We're Not Theorists.
We're Practitioners.

One Conversation.
Every Season.

How Can We
Pray for You?

We'd Love to
Hear From You.

Stay Connected.
Join the Movement.